Why Thanksgiving Traditions Matter
Thanksgiving is one of the most beloved holidays in the United States, and for good reason. It’s a time to slow down, reflect, and connect with the people we love. For families with older adults, long-standing traditions, and even new ones, offer meaningful opportunities to bond, share stories, and make every generation feel valued.
1. Cook a Family Recipe Together
Food is at the heart of Thanksgiving, and cooking together can become a treasured activity. Does Grandma have a famous stuffing recipe? Is there a pie your uncle makes every year?
Invite older family members to be part of the process:
- Let them teach the next generation how to prepare a favorite dish
- Ask them to share stories about where the recipe came from
- Set up a safe, comfortable space in the kitchen where they can join in
Not local? Consider hosting a virtual recipe cook-along or sending pre-packaged ingredients and swapping photos.
2. Create a Gratitude Tablecloth
Start a new tradition with a DIY gratitude tablecloth. Grab a plain white tablecloth and some fabric markers, and have everyone write what they’re thankful for, then save it for next year and add to it annually. It’s a beautiful keepsake that captures changing memories over time.
This tradition can be especially meaningful for older adults, who enjoy reflecting on past blessings and seeing their family’s growth written in permanent ink.
3. Share a “Then and Now” Story Hour
Create a quiet moment after dinner for sharing. Invite older adults to share Thanksgiving stories from their younger years, like their first time hosting or how they celebrated in childhood. Ask younger family members to share what they’re thankful for now.
This exchange of stories helps bridge generations and creates space for emotional connection.
4. Include Loved Ones from Afar
If your older loved ones can’t be with you in person, consider these inclusive alternatives:
- Schedule a video call before or after dinner
- Have a Companion help facilitate the call from their home
- Send a Thanksgiving care package with cards, favorite treats, or a printed photo album
Connection matters, even across miles, and many older adults appreciate the effort of being included.
5. Go for a Post-Meal Gratitude Walk
After your meal, bundle up and enjoy a short family walk around the neighborhood or park.
6. Play Classic Family Games or Trivia
Laughter is one of the best tools we have. Dust off classic board games, puzzles, or play a few rounds of Thanksgiving-themed trivia. Not only is it fun, it’s great for cognitive health and engagement.
7. Bring Everyone into the Preparation
Sometimes, older adults feel left out of the action, especially when the pace of the holidays speeds up. Assign age-appropriate tasks so everyone has a role. A Villi Companion can assist with:
- Setting the table
- Light prep or stirring
- Greeting guests
- Keeping conversation flowing
The Role of Companions During the Holidays
Holidays can also bring stress for those managing a busy household. A Companion can help by:
- Handling light meal prep or cleanup
- Providing company for a loved one while you host or take a breather
- Offering conversation, companionship, and calm in the midst of the holiday hustle
Villi Companions are here to help and make sure no one feels overlooked or overwhelmed, especially during the moments that matter most.
Thanksgiving is about gratitude, yes, but also about connection. Whether your family has long-held rituals or wants to try something new this year, the traditions you build, big or small, can leave a lasting legacy of love.
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